Wearing a Watch, too much subject review in class

Both kids have watches. M wears hers on and off, mostly for fun. G did not like to wear his much until yesterday. I saw him started to wearing it to school. My initial thought is that other kids have watches and he wanted to bring his. But when I asked him casually this morning, he told me why: When he sits in groups in class, where they do reviews, he finishes early and gets bored. He couldn't see the clock from where they are, so he wants to know the time.

I have heard from one other parents that they spent a lot of time at the start of the year doing review work in Math. I am not sure I am happy with this. But G also said he is learning new things in Science. And we have a curriculum night tonight so I can find out more about the curriculum at this new School. Lastly, I am running the Family Math night and hoping to start a Math club with a few very enthusiastic parents to enrich their learning outside of the regular classroom. Stay tuned.

Explain Acupuncture to an eight year old

I want to get some acupuncture treatment yesterday for my back.  G has been asking me about how it works so I took him with me. He watched Dr Mai examined my back, and then applied about ten needles in my back. On the way home, I started to explain meridians, and chi to him. Then he asked a couple of questions that made me realized there were some fundamental misconception: Remember all his experience in medicine are

  • taking over the counter western medicine like fever reducers
  • annual check ups by his pediatrician
  • vaccination via needles
  • and ok -- he did take a course of Chinese herbal medicine once

The misconception is that he thought the acupuncture needles were injecting medicine (like a western needle) into the body. Once I explained the needle is there to adjust (unblock or reduce) chi flow, his next logical question is how can the doctor tell where are the acupuncture points. I told him that ultimately is done by feel. Then he appreciates the difficulties. When I told him that Traditional Chinese Medicine is slowly getting lost because the difficulties in studying and practicing, he shared my concern.


Are we the only family who does not play video games?

Wii Logo

G just started soccer with the in town team and attended his first practice. Great group of kids. Wonderful coaches. He is going to really enjoy it. At the first practice, by mean of introduction, the coach asked everyone to introduce themselves -- what is your name, your grade, your school and what is your favorite video game?

Well, G is the only kid that answered "I don't have a favorite video game" which is technically correct. That is because we do not own any video game console, nor we really play video games on the computers. Ok we do play a few games on the iPad, but that's it.

We are obviously not technophobic. G program games. I just finished a class called "Game design for education" and started one called "Game for social change" at MIT. The right games are great for kids. Just not the generic video games.

Hint: Try Plague Inc. on the iPad. Review coming soon.

Who Approve Books?

This is the question of the day from G. Many mornings the first thing G does is to come up to me and ask me a question out of the blue. Today's question -- who decide what books to sell? I explained to him the traditional book business first. There are publishing houses, with editors screening authors and books for quality of content. "Grammar and spelling?" G asked? Yes but also whether the stories and contents are age appropriate, whether it is interesting that people would want o buy it.

I named a few publishers for him, and tell him to check the spine of some of the books in our library. Sometimes publishers are known for the type of books they sell. "A lot of your books are by Scholastics" I told G. Where as many of my computer books are by Wiley.

We also talked about the self publishing market. The good news is that anyone can publish a book now, print or electronic. The bad news is, quality varies. "Do you want to publish a book?" I asked him. "No, was just wondering" -- his typical answer.

Updated: The next morning, after his usual morning reading time, he showed me his book and pointed out the publisher's name on it. I guess this is still on him mind.


Birthday for an eight year old

G had a wonderful birthday. His sister spent a lot of time making him a lacrosse stick that is functional! M and I had to work to hide it from G before the birthday. M also made a daily quote paper chain for him, opening a link each day. When I commended her on all her hard work for her brother, she said "well it also fill some of my bored time". She really is a caring sister.

G is very sensible about presents. We talked a lot about what he would like, and he is happily rejecting things that are too expensive, or unnecessary. We settle on a micro crawler, a very sophisticated "toy". Most people would consider that more of an expensive hobby item. He was of course happy to receive it. We played with it a bit before bedtime. When I was heading to bed, he said "you are a good daddy". A few minutes later he found me and gave me a hug and thanked me for the present. I guess he really like it.

First Time Fishing

I do not like fishing. There, I said it. Therefore the kids have never been fishing. Luckily, one of their school friends invited them to a fishing play date. They went fishing right on the Charles river lagoon area in town. M fell into the river immediately because she did not realized the last steps were slippy. But she was a good sport and had a great time. I was not there. Otherwise I would have get her dried up instead of standing in the drizzle wearing wet clothes while fishing. But that's another story.

The best news is all the kids caught something. M's carp is particularly good sized. She was very proud.

Over Achieving Packer

Our suburban move is almost confirmed. This afternoon I started M and G off sorting and packing their toys. For little kids I know they are way better than most kids. I have subtly trained them in being organized and not keeping too much "stuff". Both went about their tasks. But of course after two hours M wondered off to do something else, and G kept going. He threw away a lot of old toys and nicknacks that he collected. At the end, he came over to me, smiled and said "over achiever?" I laughed and hugged him.

Blogging by second graders

I have decided to let G blog here. He has been writing some nice essays in School. Why not let him put them here? This will also be a nice way for M and G to stay in touch with their friends once we moved to the burbs. I created a "contributor" level account for him. This will let him type his own entries (posts) into wordpress but I will have to review it before publishing it to the public. We have a short discussion on privacy issues -- leave out details and names in the posts. He seems to get it.

Finally, as I watch him type his first story, I realize he can really touch type now. Not bad for a 7 years old !